Its a simple process of elimination when meeting a stranger.
Round 1: Must be polite in approach and be able to hold an interesting conversation. I respect the courage it takes to approach a total stranger and I think it deserves a woman’s attention as long as the man is polite. It also deserves a polite “No thank you” if necessary, but I think that a woman should at least wait till round 2. Ask her, “Do you come here alot?” or “Is it always this crowded/empty at this bar?” Something general.
Round 2: Must not be physically repulsive.
Round 3: Must say or do something to make me crack a smile. Tell me a funny story. Compliment my appearance. Make fun of my height deficiency.
Give a man 5 minutes before you reject him for lack of sparks (both physical and personality). Polite strangers deserve a respectful and honest rejection. Can you believe tonight my girlfriends would rather falsely claim to be lesbians than to say no thanks to a guy who was nice enough to offer them a drink? [rolling eyes in disgust].