17 07 2008

May 26, 2008

Can you ziploc your feelings for someone? Pour them in, seal them up, keep them fresh, and put it away in case you’ll need them again? It sounds like the next vacu-seal craze.

July 17, 2008

Why do I have to wait for a man to get his shit together? Some cases I’ve been the one who needed to get my shit together. Why can’t both people be in the right spot at the right time? I don’t know, and I don’t care. When you care about someone, its when they are at their highest peak and their lowest lows. Even though he doesn’t feel complete enough to be in a relationship, I tell him he’s never going to be complete. We are gong to continue to grow and learn and improve everyday through eternity. That’s the point. In any case, I want us to grow together. That’s what it is to be with someone.

Sometimes, I think boys think that relationships mean marriage and kids and getting old and boring, or serious and strict. Maybe it is about those things to other people. For me, its about growing with someone through life’s ups and downs, and being there for each other. Many boys I date think a girlfriend is too much of a distraction from their goals. But the right girlfriend is going to support your goals, believe you can reach your goals, and not get in the way of it.




One response

19 07 2008

Yes Lynne. men have an inherit fear in commitment that somehow they’ll be missing something or that they aren’t ready. Really.. you never know when u are ready and frequently its the challenge of the situation that helps you grow..

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